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I know in Islam, Allah and The Prophet said that every Muslim is equal in Allah’s eyes and that there is no other race deemed more superior than the other. Because if a human being is labeling what race is superior than another then logically they are saying that they make the rules on Earth and only ALLAH makes the rules both: here on Earth and throughout the universe. and last time I checked it was mortal haram to try and make “God-like” decisions like that. So why do some Arabs (I said SOME not ALL) believe that they are better than everybody else? I know that The Prophet was Arab, but even in the Hadith, if other Arabs stepped out of line or made mistakes, The Prophet would put them in their places and teach them not to mimic bad behavior such as superiority complexes or murder against other Muslims, etc. Now these days, I can’t walk across a busy street in my Muslim part of town without Arabs bumping into me and not apologizing. Some will even bump into me and stare at me like I was the one the that was wrong and then when I say “Salaam Waalakum” to them they walk away. I may be African-American and Native American, but I am intellegent, respectful, handsome, and funny. I thought I could marry any Muslim woman as long as I was a good-spirited Muslim man, but I guess since The Prophet is not here to stop things like this like he use to, I guess I’m wrong. Now for the main story… A few years ago I met a beautiful girl in high school who happened to be Arab. I was always friends with her brothers and her sister and her family even knew my cousin. Over time me and the girl got to know each other and we were best friends. Worked on projects and assignments together during school. We even went to college together and had the same classes there, too. I guess you could say we fell in love with each other without ever having sex. I worked while I was in college, but I ended up moving due to a transfer to another location for a better position. The only reason why I took that job was because I loved her and I wanted to secure good finances so I could hopefully marry her one day. I visited her and talked to her a lot with i was working this job. Her brothers would joke around over the phone they always asked “When are you going to marry her already?” One day I finally made the decision to marry her. I even asked the brothers to help me with their customs what I nedd to do to be successful with the process. There was only one obstacle: her father. I asked them to mention me here and there for a few month so my reputation as a good person could be known to them. After almost a year, I heard that her mom liked the sound of who I was and tried to talk to the father about meeting me. The father said, “Yes”. I was so excited. I had butterflies the entire day driving up to their house. Then… I made it there. I rang the doorbell and the family let me in. I introduced myself to the parents and especially tried to make jokes so that the father would like me a little bit more. He asked me if he could talk to me in private and I agreed. So we went to his patio and sat down. He told me “You know what? I like you. You are a good person. From what my sons tell me about you, you have a great chance of marrying any girl you want… Just not my daughter.” I said “Excuse me?” He said, “It’s no offense to you, but I would prefer her to marry an Arab man.” With my heartbroken, I left. I talked to the girl and saw her a few more times, but since then we have lost contact. If it wasn’t for ethnocentric customs like that, she would be sitting next me right now and I wouldn’t be writing this column right now. Why is it like this in Arabic culture?

I know in Islam, Allah and The Prophet said that every Muslim is equal in Allah’s eyes and that there is no other race deemed more superior than the other. Because if a human being is labeling what race is superior than another then logically they are saying that they make the rules on Earth and only ALLAH makes the rules both: here on Earth and throughout the universe. and last time I checked it was mortal haram to try and make “God-like” decisions like that. So why do some Arabs (I said SOME not ALL) believe that they are better than everybody else? I know that The Prophet was Arab, but even in the Hadith, if other Arabs stepped out of line or made mistakes, The Prophet would put them in their places and teach them not to mimic bad behavior such as superiority complexes or murder against other Muslims, etc. Now these days, I can’t walk across a busy street in my Muslim part of town without Arabs bumping into me and not apologizing. Some will even bump into me and stare at me like I was the one the that was wrong and then when I say “Salaam Waalakum” to them they walk away. I may be African-American and Native American, but I am intellegent, respectful, handsome, and funny. I thought I could marry any Muslim woman as long as I was a good-spirited Muslim man, but I guess since The Prophet is not here to stop things like this like he use to, I guess I’m wrong. Now for the main story… A few years ago I met a beautiful girl in high school who happened to be Arab. I was always friends with her brothers and her sister and her family even knew my cousin. Over time me and the girl got to know each other and we were best friends. Worked on projects and assignments together during school. We even went to college together and had the same classes there, too. I guess you could say we fell in love with each other without ever having sex. I worked while I was in college, but I ended up moving due to a transfer to another location for a better position. The only reason why I took that job was because I loved her and I wanted to secure good finances so I could hopefully marry her one day. I visited her and talked to her a lot with i was working this job. Her brothers would joke around over the phone they always asked “When are you going to marry her already?” One day I finally made the decision to marry her. I even asked the brothers to help me with their customs what I nedd to do to be successful with the process. There was only one obstacle: her father. I asked them to mention me here and there for a few month so my reputation as a good person could be known to them. After almost a year, I heard that her mom liked the sound of who I was and tried to talk to the father about meeting me. The father said, “Yes”. I was so excited. I had butterflies the entire day driving up to their house. Then… I made it there. I rang the doorbell and the family let me in. I introduced myself to the parents and especially tried to make jokes so that the father would like me a little bit more. He asked me if he could talk to me in private and I agreed. So we went to his patio and sat down. He told me “You know what? I like you. You are a good person. From what my sons tell me about you, you have a great chance of marrying any girl you want… Just not my daughter.” I said “Excuse me?” He said, “It’s no offense to you, but I would prefer her to marry an Arab man.” With my heartbroken, I left. I talked to the girl and saw her a few more times, but since then we have lost contact. If it wasn’t for ethnocentric customs like that, she would be sitting next me right now and I wouldn’t be writing this column right now. Why is it like this in Arabic culture?

i dont want you really to comment about the tough life ive had, i only want advise on how to REACT to the behaviour im experincing :

im now nearlly 31.

ive had a tough , rough life , and suffered with rage outburst in public , years ago, i have agoraphobia , panic attacks, bad anxiety , struggle with aggression, mixing with others , anti social conduct , very low self esteem , difficulty forming friendships , too needy, to desperate for friendship, all this as a result of severe victimisation throughout my life.

i was diagnosed with borderline personality and post traumatic stress traits 2 years ago — ive been doing well for years and managing my conduct, managing my rage feelings, impulses – but its still a great struggle and iam seeking help , even though there is no psychotherapy because of lack of resources and funding..

for years now ive put up with this behaviour in my local community -

i feel society singles me out, ive put up with funny looks in supermarkets, for years, people being stand- offish and aloof, non accepting, been on the receiving end of mind games etc..

suffered patronisation, being condescended, spoken to as inferior, felt judged, singled out, victimised in my local society, even though ive managed my rage out bursts for years , this behaviour still goes on.
part of it i feel i think its because i live in a mainly white area of the uk and im multiracial.

i wont bow down to be accepted, and i reject anyone who feels sorry for me or treats me as a charity case.

its hard because i feel judged, branded as a society weirdo, labelled, singled out etc, like living amongst prejudice.

i feel people treat me like this because they think they have authority to do so, like they know me personally because of my conduct and rage problems – when they dont know me at all.

plus ive been in situations in the past where ive been spoken about or over heard someone talking about me , with them defining who iam to everyone , like they know me and can make statement about me , as if they no to be true.

this makes me feel very hostile and aggressive because, i dont appreciate that at all – im a private person who minds his own business and is working on my condition .

i dont like people speaking anything of me when they dont no me, defining me to everyone else , if there was no laws in society , they wouldn’t do it again, trust.

i dont accept those who treat me as a charity case either, i reject them with cold hostility, even mock them, so psychologically ive changed their feelings of me.

how do i handle these games people play and their behaviour when im a reforming character whos just trying to work on my life, mind my own business ?

the people who treat me like this, iam aloof and abrupt back and stare at them right back .

but i feel like im in catch 22 because when i get angry and vexed and stare back etc – it just further alienates me.

i feel like starting something saying ‘ yeah whut the fck you looking at ‘
it gets me so angry, but how else would you deal with it ? its not as if i can leave england right now ……

and please dont condescend me or critisize me, ive controlled my behaviour for years and are minding my own business , so its nothing im doing, im only a bit aloof as a defense mechanism.
my goal is to leave the uk with a decent computer job , but i have plenty to work through and i know im at many disadvantages : with no work history, qualifications , have a criminal record etc.

im nearly 31

my goal is to leave the uk with a decent computer job , but i have plenty to work through and i know im at many disadvantages : with no work history, qualifications , have a criminal record etc. missed out on forming social relationships , im now nearlly 31.

ive had a tough , rough life , and suffered with rage outburst in public , years ago, i have agoraphobia , panic attacks, bad anxiety , struggle with aggression, mixing with others , anti social conduct , very low self esteem , difficulty forming friendships , too needy, to desperate for friendship, all this as a result of severe victimisation throughout my life, i was diagnosed with borderline personality and post traumatic stress traits 2 years ago — ive been doing well for years and managing my conduct, managing my rage feelings, impulses – but its still a great struggle and iam seeking help , even though there is no psychotherapy because of lack of resources and funding..

for years now ive put up with this behaviour in my local community –

i feel society singles me out, ive put up with funny looks in supermarkets, for years, people being stand- offish and aloof, non accepting, been on the receiving end of mind games etc..

suffered patronisation, being condescended, spoken to as inferior, felt judged, singled out, victimised in my local society, even though ive managed my rage out bursts for years , this behaviour still goes on.
part of it i feel i think its because i live in a mainly white area of the uk and im multiracial.
but i wont bow down to be accepted, and i reject anyone who feels sorry for me or treats me as a charity case.

the people who treat me like this, iam aloof and abrupt back.

but its hard because i feel judged, branded as a society weirdo, labelled, singled out etc, like living amongst prejudice.

i feel people treat me like this because they think they have authority to do so, like they know me personally because of my conduct and rage problems – when they dont know me at all.

plus ive been in situations in the past where ive been spoken about or over heard someone talking about me , with them defining who iam to everyone , like they know me and can make statement about me , as if they no to be true.

this makes me feel very hostile and aggressive because, i dont appreciate that at all – im a private person who minds his own business and is working on my condition .

i dont like people speaking anything of me when they dont no me, defining me to everyone else , if there was no laws in society , they wouldn’t do it again, trust.

i dont accept those who treat me as a charity case either, i reject them with cold hostility, even mock them, so psychologically ive changed their feelings of me.

how do i handle these games people play and their behaviour when im a reforming character whos just trying to work on my life, mind my own business ?

the people who treat me like this, iam aloof and abrupt back and stare at them right back .

but i feel like im in catch 22 because when i get angry and vexed and stare back etc – it just further alienates me.

i feel like starting something saying ‘ yeah whut the fck you looking at ‘
it gets me so angry, but how else would you deal with it ? its not as if i can leave england right now ……

and please dont condescend me or critisize me, ive controlled my behaviour for years and are minding my own business , so its nothing im doing, im only a bit aloof as a defense mechanism.

i dont want you really to comment about the tough life ive had, i only want advise on how to REACT to the behaviour im experincing :

im now nearlly 31.

ive had a tough , rough life , and suffered with rage outburst in public , years ago, i have agoraphobia , panic attacks, bad anxiety , struggle with aggression, mixing with others , anti social conduct , very low self esteem , difficulty forming friendships , too needy, to desperate for friendship, all this as a result of severe victimisation throughout my life.

i was diagnosed with borderline personality and post traumatic stress traits 2 years ago — ive been doing well for years and managing my conduct, managing my rage feelings, impulses – but its still a great struggle and iam seeking help , even though there is no psychotherapy because of lack of resources and funding..

for years now ive put up with this behaviour in my local community -

i feel society singles me out, ive put up with funny looks in supermarkets, for years, people being stand- offish and aloof, non accepting, been on the receiving end of mind games etc..

suffered patronisation, being condescended, spoken to as inferior, felt judged, singled out, victimised in my local society, even though ive managed my rage out bursts for years , this behaviour still goes on.
part of it i feel i think its because i live in a mainly white area of the uk and im multiracial.

i wont bow down to be accepted, and i reject anyone who feels sorry for me or treats me as a charity case.

its hard because i feel judged, branded as a society weirdo, labelled, singled out etc, like living amongst prejudice.

i feel people treat me like this because they think they have authority to do so, like they know me personally because of my conduct and rage problems – when they dont know me at all.

plus ive been in situations in the past where ive been spoken about or over heard someone talking about me , with them defining who iam to everyone , like they know me and can make statement about me , as if they no to be true.

this makes me feel very hostile and aggressive because, i dont appreciate that at all – im a private person who minds his own business and is working on my condition .

i dont like people speaking anything of me when they dont no me, defining me to everyone else , if there was no laws in society , they wouldn’t do it again, trust.

i dont accept those who treat me as a charity case either, i reject them with cold hostility, even mock them, so psychologically ive changed their feelings of me.

how do i handle these games people play and their behaviour when im a reforming character whos just trying to work on my life, mind my own business ?

the people who treat me like this, iam aloof and abrupt back and stare at them right back .

but i feel like im in catch 22 because when i get angry and vexed and stare back etc – it just further alienates me.

i feel like starting something saying ‘ yeah whut the fck you looking at ‘
it gets me so angry, but how else would you deal with it ? its not as if i can leave england right now ……

and please dont condescend me or critisize me, ive controlled my behaviour for years and are minding my own business , so its nothing im doing, im only a bit aloof as a defense mechanism.

my goal is to leave the uk with a decent computer job , but i have plenty to work through and i know im at many disadvantages : with no work history, qualifications , have a criminal record etc.

im nearly 31

i dont care about telling all this, i dont care at all, im open and honest about my life – i just need advise here.

I wanted to put out some observations and a conclusions I’ve reached about a big issue in the world: if homosexuality is a correct lifestyle (just as heterosexuality is). In religious terms moral/ immoral.
1) Old Psychological books written by child/adolescent therapists I’ve scanned over:
a. It was not what I expected in reading one of these old “how to raise a child books.” No spanking, no restraining them from exploring their private parts. I was thinking the author was on track with liberal theology, or maybe progressive theories. Then came a twist. The author labeled homosexual sex as “abnormal sex practices. “
b.The book presented the idea that these “abnormal practices” came from some mess up in childhood, from parental, or societal, upbringing.

2. a. Celebrities: Most of my attention here is on Ellen. Ellen Degeneres was abused, sexually, by a husband or boyfriend of her mother’s I have heard before. It is my thought that childhood is such an important time of development on all levels for the child that something like this sets them on a wrong path for their future. It may allow their mind to separate from God, break away, and follow their own ideas from the shame, humiliation and pain of the past. They invent new lifestyles that aren’t the right ones.
b. Not belonging: I heard a speech speaking on troubles youth. The person said that young people get into trouble, follow immoral lifestyles, etc, because society doesn’t allow them to belong. Hey, if someone is bullied all the time at school, they clearly see they don’t belong, so why not take themselves out of the picture as well as the people responsible for the pain. When a person feels they don’t belong in their society…that is the foundation for all sorts of violence and joyless lifestyles chasing after a rainbow.
c. I’m reading an article of someone’s life: Her father was a strange man. Not always there for her, sometimes hated her. Left her mother. Dated lots of woman. Was a doctor, then lost his practice. Asked for money and never repaid. Wanted love from his child, but sometimes didn’t love her. Etc.
I wasn’t surprised when in the article the daughter says she is a lesbian. How can she trust men when her father, the child’s first image of a man, the great, ideal man, the father. The one who looks out for you unconditionally has all these personal problems and problems with loving their children? I think her lesbianism is a manifestation of her mistrust of her father and their whole shattered relationship.

d.. In celebrities lives. …drugs and homosexuality go together in some of their lives. So does rehab and jail. And then individuals lives around me, be it in high school, college or beyond. I noticed the people who are homosexual don’t have both parents married. Have tried drugs now, or in their past. And searching really for belonging and stability.

e. In college, a few of my roommates and family members thought I was a poster child for homosexuality.
They saw me as…well as someone I described above…a form of the generic homosexual, you could say: lonely, loner, shy, passive, quiet, struggling in life, family problems, rejected, confused, bullied in school (emotionally abused: foundation).
Those traits are commonly seen in homosexuals, if not now, then in their previous years.
So why didn’t I turn out gay? I don’t like the collectivism of it (secular). It’s not the right path. Feel it doesn’t solve my past anyways (spiritual). Female completes spiritual missing pieces of male and vice versa.

But the more homosexual people I observe and get information on their lives, the more I see them having some form of abuse in their past with a bad childhood. These are the seeds of destruction. I don’t buy that it’s a hormonal thing, purported by science. I think science tells us lots of contradictory information. Doctors used to say cigarettes were good for us, and weightlifting was a terrible thing.
. Science can be biased by the scientist, or simply we are human and are missing factors in our “research.”
In the end, since these people have been abused in some way, the correct thing isn’t to hate them, but understand them. Give them sympathy, friendship, support. But not support by marching in the gay pride parade.
I relate this to Jesus and how he told the prostitute to turn from her ways, after He saved her life. He didn’t tell her it’s okay to sin because you need the money. Or how he ate with sinners, tax collectors, etc. He didn’t get drunk with them and support them in their bad ways, but wanted to open their eyes to love and friendship and a better way to live. At least that’s what I thing he was doing.

They need healing. But I can’t believe in supporting and encouraging their lifestyle.

In a previous question on here, someone insinuated that the FDA dropping their approval of a drug called Avastin was the start of death panels. They used an article from investors.com to back their claim. The article, titled “Death Panels Begin As Reform Takes Shape”, starts right out saying,

“It didn’t take long for the health care philosophy of Dr. Donald Berwick, President Obama’s choice to head the Centers for Medicaid and Medicare Services, and an appointee we have labeled a “one-man death panel,” to have an effect.”

Now, how does a newspaper publication expect to be take seriously and seen as credible if it starts and labels and article like that? This is the same publication that stated Stephen Hawking “wouldn’t have a chance in the U.K., where the National Health Service would say the life of this brilliant man, because of his physical handicaps, is essentially worthless.” Unfortunately for them, Stephen Hawking is, and always has been British. He has lived his entire life in the UK and responded with: “I wouldn’t be here today if it were not for the NHS… I have received a large amount of high-quality treatment without which I would not have survived.”

Now, how can we take these claims of “Death Panels” seriously if they can’t even provide credible proof that they even exist? Who is more likely to have a “Death Panel”? A private insurance company, whose interest is making sure they make a profit, or the Federal Government, whose main concern is serving the people?

The original question I am referring to:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkMWZHoQ2mJdJkGRPacqdczty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100819084417AAXikSK&show=7#profile-info-GJKWgx0Paa

Unfortunately Boogyman, your claim of having to wait for check-ups and surgery only holds true in certain situations. If it is a needed procedure, such as emergency surgery, there is no hesitation. If it is something that is non-emergency you may have to wait, but that is no difference than here in the US. When I tore my ACL, I had to wait 2 weeks to get my re-constructive surgery. I had to wait for the doctor’s schedule to fit me in. This is no different from my sister-in-law, who lives on Vancouver Island in Canada, to get the same surgery. She got an appointment next day, and had to wait 2 and half weeks to get hers done. Allowing people to purchase insurance in another state from the same companies does not solve any problems. The companies will just add an out of state fee.
thank you Spock for affirming that I did indeed cite the article, albeit I did actually cite it directly , and not answering the questions I asked.
Pfo, I hardly call pulling the approval of a $100,000/year drug that shows no real benefits, rationing. That is just called common sense. The FDA advisory board originally voted overwhelmingly not to approve the drug, but Bush’s appointee decided to go against better judgement, most likely because he or someone else had a hand in the cookie jar. No the government doesn’t always make the best decisions, mostly when it comes to foreign affairs, but when we have a large portion of the prison population living very healthy lives, we can gather that the good citizens will be taken care of as well. But I digress. To assert that the insurance companies serve their customers well is outrageous. The whole notion of allowing a private company to decide whether they will provide money for health care is just absurd.

I know it is long.. but PLEASE READ and give me your opinion.. I need all the different points of view I can get.. Thank you in advance for your time and help

-Ari, Helpless Romantic

I am a girl who has some ‘commitment’ issues. Not the normal kind ( like NOT wanting a relationship) but when I find someone who I connect with which is VERy few and far between) I tend to get CLINGY because I am afraid to loose them. My parents divorced when I was 8, and that was a traumatic experience for me, and my father was more of the “best friend – I let you stay up all night and eat ice cream for breakfast so hate your mom and her stupid rules” type of divorcee dad…. I never had any friends growing up…I LOVED school, because it was the only place I could go to get away from the stresses of my family… because of that, I was labeled as the teacher’s pet.. was a little on the chubby side, and I tended to enjoy the non-complex company of boys rather than the drama-filled world of girls.. so I was taunted by my peers for being chubby, hanging out with guys, and being the teachers pet..

High school finally came and in Freshman Year (after graduating a lonely Valedictorian of my 1,000 kid high school) I went to a school with about 20 kids in each grade, and all the grades were in their own little building. So I got some good friends. but this one boy and I got along right from the start. His name was Ray and he was the reason I woke up in the morning, traveled an hour to school, stayed there for 8 – 10 hours then took the hour long trip back home..
{Now since I was little all the girls made fun of me and told me I would never find a boyfriend or a husband (blah blah blah), so whenever I had a crush on a guy, I befriended them, thinking that if that was the best I was going to get, then I’d take it.}
So me and Ray hit it off and we became BEST FRIENDS… sitting next to each other, walking next to each other, picking each other to be partners (etc) all without thought.. it was like we gravitated to each other.
So everyone (all 20 lol) of our peers were saying ‘you guys would be a great couple” etc etc etc… and one day it kinda just happened… (5 months after we met)

My first best-friend turned into my first kiss who turned into my first boyfriend, all over the course of two months..

Now Ray had family issues of his own… his mother died of cancer when he was 12 or so, and his father became abusive and he got remarried and forced Ray to call his new stepmother ‘mom’. Needless to say, Ray had trust issues. He never talked to anyone about his problems, he just pretended he didn’t have any..

I was the first, and to this day still am, the only person he trusts. He tells me when he’s upset and he lets me vent to him..

He broke up with me after 2 months of a WONDERFUL relationship. It was very sporadic, one day he said we need to talk, and he said this isn’t working.. The next day in school was a little weird, he said hey and I said Hi and after 2 days we were back to Best friends, like nothing had ever happened, like he never broke my heart, like he never felt any sadness for loosing me. Whereas I was heartbroken, but I was used to suppressing all those emotions from my younger days. So it wasn’t weird for me… it has been 4 years now, and he is still my best friend..

6 months after our break up, we were now in different private schools, a friend of mine, Jimmy, asked me out, and all I could picture was how Ray would feel if I went out with someone else, so I declined his offer.

he didn’t have a private phone so we’d IM instead and a few days after the Jimmy incident, the topic of ‘us’ came up and I told him that when I though of a date with Jimmy, I though of him, and when I went to bed at night I though of him and wondered if he was thinking of me, and when I hear a love song on the radio, I sing it and I think of what he would say if I sung it to him whole playing my guitar. He said(and I quote), “I thought that breaking up with you was the best thing for you. I love you too much to let my FUCKED up life get involved with you in anyway. I didn’t realize that what I was feeling for you was love, and not just relief that I could connect with other people after all the shit I’d been through. I love you and I’m sorry I hurt you.. That’s the last thing I wanted to do!”
Since then (3 years ago) we say I Love You and neither of us has had a boyfriend/girlfriend.

I know some people will say he’s in it to have sex with me, but after 4 years, and me telling him that it’s not gonna happen for a while, and him saying ok and never bringing it up again. I KNOW that sex is not his motivation.

The other day he walked 25 miles to see me because He couldn’t afford to buy a $7.00 train ticket.
(I wanted to kill him for putting his life in danger, but then realized that if I ki

So, ever since I went on their new, updated website, I’ve desperately wanted to sign up for their ‘members’ section, but haven’t been able to because of this ‘secret code’ included in their E-Mails. A lot of you have been wondering, “What the %#*&?!, what E-Mail?!”,as have I, but I just found the reason and explanation.

——

The band has a new logo font, which has a very “Clockwork Orange” vibe, and their background for the site is a dark picture of recording equipment, but -beyond the aesthetic differences- there are much, much bigger changes.

Among the navigation tabs at the top of the page, there is a section labeled, “members.” When one attempts to register to be a member, one bumps into a slight problem- there is a “secret password” one has to use to register. These lucky people somehow already got their password, but how? Luckily, you have yours truly to explain these things.

California-area members of MCR’s street-team, the MCRmy (of which you all know I am a proud member) began getting the following e-mail, which was accompanied by their secret code:

Members of the MCRmy,

As a thank you for being loyal fans of My Chemical Romance for so
long, we’re inviting you to be the first to register for
MyChemicalRomance.com. This means that you’ll be able to add your
thoughts on MCR’s blog posts, get your own profile at MCR.com, and
more features coming!

You have also been chosen to join My Chemical Romance at the ROXY in
Los Angeles on either July 31st or August 1st for a free private club
show.

You will be given a unique code to claim one pair of tickets for one
of the two shows. That means that it can only be used one time. Do not
post this anywhere, or someone may use your code before you do. Note
– this offer is only for a pair of tickets. Travel or hotels (if you
need them) are not provided – just the tickets!

There are only 100 pairs of tickets to each show, so reserve yours
right away. Once they’re gone, they’re gone. Good luck!

Those who did not get the e-mail about the Roxy shows could have won tickets from KROQ, but -otherwise- this appears to be a private show for the MCRmy.

My Chem bassist Mikey Way urges fans to be patient, assuring us that registration will be open for all soon enough.

Hope this helps. x
As stupid as it may sound, there is no question. I just thought I’d be convenient of those who had been asking this question lately.